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View-Worthy: 6.18.13

There are a lot of excellent Christian bloggers out there and many of them post daily. In an effort to assist readers find valuable reading, I ReTweet my three favorite reads that I’ve read each day.

View-Worthy is the daily post at jtcochran.com which shares these view-worthy reads from the previous day. All I’ve done is embedded my ReTweets from the previous day. Simply click through the link to enjoy these excellent reads. I encourage you to add these bloggers or blogs to your blog roll, rss feed, or follow them on twitter.

Gospel Courage

For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. For in it the righteousness of God is revealed from faith for faith, as it is written, “The righteous shall live by faith.” Romans 1.16-17

The gospel gives me courage. When I speak the gospel to myself, I have the courage to proclaim the gospel to others. The gospel is a reminder to myself of God’s beautiful revelation in Christ. He is the righteousness of God.

Not only does the gospel free me from shame of the gospel, but it frees me from shame of my sin. Yes, there is a sense in which I feel great shame for the sin of yesterday, today, and tomorrow. Yet, in the gospel I am reminded that I have been set free from the power of sin over my life. I do not have to permit it to rule me. I can escape the sin addiction. I no longer need to walk in shame, but I have the courage to rally to the gospel and allow the gospel to wash over me and my sin, cleansing me from all unrighteousness. It is in the gospel that I have the courage to no longer feel the shame of my sin.

Christ carried the burden of the shame of sin for all His children. Re-read the passion narrative for yourself and be reminded of the shame he experienced. This is the shame that we have all been freed from by one who willingly endured the shame, scorning it, and set his gaze towards that instrument of death. The mockery and slander Christ endured on our behalf, correctly we deserve. But we have this sweet promise from Romans 8.1, “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”

Before Christ emerged from the grave, one Roman soldier repented and proclaimed, “Surely, this was a righteous man.” The shame Christ endured going to the cross is swallowed and forgotten in the victory Christ won when emerging from the grave. The gospel is the power of God. The power of God is in no greater display than when the Son of God emerges victorious over sin. His shame is erased and shown to be wrongly applied to Him. However, with gratitude we accept that he was smitten and afflicted on our behalf, so we would not endure the shame but be given the courage to approach His throne of grace with confidence.

The gospel gives us courage.

Intentional Parenting: Reminders of Authority

So, today I would like to share about an unhealthy trend that took hold in our home. This is a trend from which we are quickly repenting.

Our daughter has progressed to buck authority in the home. Most of the ways that she does this are seemingly inconsequential. However, as stated above, it has become quite the trend. This trend started out with, “But I don’t want to take a nap.” It progressed to, “But I wanna get a toy anyway.”

These points of questioning or vocalizing her wants became outright rebellion. Instead of asking permission, she would go ahead and do something she wasn’t supposed to do, or she would mischievously misrepresent the truth. Like for instance, she would tell us she only watched one show on Netflix, when we knew for a fact that she had watched two shows.

After seeing this trend, we picked up on the fact that when she responded to authority, her obedience existed out of fear rather than out of affection. In other words, she did not love obedience. She loved staying out of trouble. Then it occurred to us, it had been some time since we talked to her about authority. We have been so focused on communicating about God’s authority over our home to our son, Asher, that we had lost the practice of communicating the same truth to our daughter.

Last night, we sat in a circle after we read our bible, and I shared with the kids about authority.

“Chloe? Asher? Who is in charge of our home?”

Chloe responded, “Jesus.”

“You’re right Chloe. Mommy and Daddy serve Jesus. This home He gave to us, and He is in charge of this home. Mommy and Daddy live to obey his commands on our lives. One of his commands has been to raise you and Asher to love the Lord. Sometimes this means that we have to do hard things that Mommy and Daddy would rather not do.”

Chloe asked, “Like discipline us?”

“Precisely. Though Mommy and Daddy would rather not discipline you, we would much more rather that you walked in obedience to God. Therefore, we must discipline you. However, we realize that we see you not being ruled by our love but by our discipline. Mommy and Daddy love you very much. We would rather your obedience come from you loving Jesus and wanting to obey Mommy and Daddy, and not from you fearing discipline from us, ” I continued, “You see, God is the authority in our home. God is the authority over all creation. In fact, you will never escape God’s authority. Everyone of us lives in submission to His authority. Now, if you wish you can rebel from that authority, but then you just fall into service of another authority, sin. Sin will then rule you. Chloe, would you rather be ruled by God or by sin?”

The answer for Chloe was a no-brainer. Even in the one day since this discussion, there is a stark difference between the Chloe of yesterday and the Chloe of today. Partly it is because I’ve started a new practice with her. When it looks like she is going to be selfish, argumentative, or whiney, I ask her this question. “Chloe, how do you want to live out obedience to God right now? Do you want to live out obedience through love or discipline?”

Her processing this question and thinking about what it means to be in submission to authority is already proving helpful for her little spiritual life.

View-Worthy: 6.17.13

There are a lot of excellent Christian bloggers out there and many of them post daily. In an effort to assist readers find valuable reading, I ReTweet my three favorite reads that I’ve read each day.

View-Worthy is the daily post at jtcochran.com which shares these view-worthy reads from the previous day. All I’ve done is embedded my ReTweets from the previous day. Simply click through the link to enjoy these excellent reads. I encourage you to add these bloggers or blogs to your blog roll, rss feed, or follow them on twitter.

 

 

Three Recommended Books for Fathers on Father’s Day

There is a click-through below for you to easily purchase these books at a great value from Amazon. These three books have significantly shaped my perspective on marriage and fatherhood this last year.

Manhood Restored by Eric Mason

The earthly crisis within manhood will be there until Jesus returns, but in Christ men are pointed toward the gospel as the vision for renewal. Manhood Restored by exciting new pastoral voice Eric Mason combines theological depth with practical insights, putting men in step with a gospel-centered manhood that will enrich every facet of their lives.

Mason begins with The Scope of Manhood — looking first at why God created man, at the divine differences between man and woman, and what should drive the purpose of a man during his time on earth.

A section on The Problems in Manhood analyzes the false icons that lead to cultural caricatures of men — the businessman, the thug, the playboy, the athlete, etc. Mason then makes a connection to the cross-cultural fatherhood crisis, looking at the things men do to fill the void when their relationship with dad or God is not there.

Finally, The Redemption of Manhood sets Jesus as the true standard of biblical manhood, looking to his perfect example to redeem and restore a man’s life in the areas of sexuality, home, and work.
Father Hunger by Douglas Wilson:

Fatherlessness is a “rot that is eating away at the modern soul,” writes Douglas Wilson, and the problem goes far beyond physical absence. “Most of our families are starving for fathers, even if Dad is around, and there’s a huge cost to our children and our society because of it.” Father Hunger takes a thoughtful, timely, richly engaging excursion into our cultural chasm of absentee fatherhood. Blending leading-edge research with incisive analysis and real-life examples, Wilson:

  • Traces a range of societal ills―from poverty and crime to joyless feminism and paternalistic government expansion―to a vacuum of mature masculinity
  • Explains the key differences between asserting paternal authority and reestablishing true spiritual fathering
  • Uncovers the corporate-fulfillment fallacy and other mistaken assumptions that undermine fatherhood
  • Extols the benefits of restoring fruitful fathering, from stronger marriages to greater economic liberty

Filled with practical ideas and self-evaluation tools, Father Hunger both encourages and challenges men to “embrace the high calling of fatherhood,” becoming the dads that their families and our culture so desperately need them to be.

The Meaning of Marriage by Timothy Keller:

Renowned pastor of New York’s Redeemer Presbyterian Church and author of the forthcoming Every Good Endeavor, Timothy Keller with his wife of 36 years, delivers The Meaning of Marriage, an extraordinarily insightful look at the keys to happiness in marriage that will inspire Christians, skeptics, singles, long-time married couples, and those about to be engaged.

Modern culture would make you believe that everyone has a soul-mate; that romance is the most important part of a successful marriage; that your spouse is there to help you realize your potential; that marriage does not mean forever, but merely for now; that starting over after a divorce is the best solution to seemingly intractable marriage issues. All those modern-day assumptions are, in a word, wrong.

Using the Bible as his guide, coupled with insightful commentary from his wife of thirty-six years, Kathy, Timothy Keller shows that God created marriage to bring us closer to him and to bring us more joy in our lives. It is a glorious relationship that is also the most misunderstood and mysterious. With a clear-eyed understanding of the Bible, and meaningful instruction on how to have a successful marriage, The Meaning of Marriage is essential reading for anyone who wants to know God and love more deeply in this life.

View-Worthy: 6.14.13

There are a lot of excellent Christian bloggers out there and many of them post daily. In an effort to assist readers find valuable reading, I ReTweet my three favorite reads that I’ve read each day.

View-Worthy is the daily post at jtcochran.com which shares these view-worthy reads from the previous day. All I’ve done is embedded my ReTweets from the previous day. Simply click through the link to enjoy these excellent reads. I encourage you to add these bloggers or blogs to your blog roll, rss feed, or follow them on twitter.

 

Fridays Are for Book Giveaways: Subversive Kingdom by Ed Stetzer

Subversive KingdomThe Book:

The world is broken– more so than we know. But for those who know that Christ is coming to establish a new and perfect order, ours is not just a world to endure but a world to invade. Believers have not been stationed here on earth merely to subsist but to actively subvert the enemy’s attempts at blinding people in unbelief and burying them under heartbreaking loads of human need.

The kingdom of God changes all that.

The Author:

Ed Stetzer is vice president of research and ministry development at LifeWay Christian Resources in Nashville, Tennessee. He holds two masters and two doctoral degrees and has written dozens of articles and acclaimed books including Planting Missional Churches, Breaking the Missional Code, Comeback Churches, and Lost and Found. Ed and his wife, Donna, have three daughters and live in Nashville, Tennessee.

The Giveaway:

Enter the giveaway by filling out this simple form and captcha below. Giveaway closes on Monday Morning June 17 at 12:00am. The winner will be contacted Monday morning. Only one entry per person please.

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View-Worthy: 6.13.13

There are a lot of excellent Christian bloggers out there and many of them post daily. In an effort to assist readers find valuable reading, I ReTweet my three favorite reads that I’ve read each day.

View-Worthy is the daily post at jtcochran.com which shares these view-worthy reads from the previous day. All I’ve done is embedded my ReTweets from the previous day. Simply click through the link to enjoy these excellent reads. I encourage you to add these bloggers or blogs to your blog roll, rss feed, or follow them on twitter.

 

Discovering Christian Blogging: Blogger Nathaniel Claiborne

Series Introduction:

Christian Blogging is not only popular but it is also a profession. Blogs as a medium are a valuable resource to receive spiritual edification, news, popular commentary on current events through a Christian lens, and insight to finding valuable resources (books, music, et al.) at discounted prices. Blogs essentially are a wonderful learning environment accessed at a reader’s leisure.

Yet, many Christians are not aware of this valuable resource. Not only this but they are not familiar with who to follow on platforms such as Twitter or to subscribe to via e-mail or their RSS Reader like Feedly.The purpose of this series is to identify and interview exceptional Christian Bloggers in order to introduce people to their blogging ministry. I hope you enjoy this series. We will continue it throughout the summer, so please stay tuned. You’re going to meet some markedly gifted people who have a passion to share God’s truth and God’s gospel through this unique digital platform.

Obviously, for this series to be successful I need your help. Please share with others about this series. I’m just preaching to the choir if regular blog readers catch on to this series. Tell your friends about this series by word of mouth. Help them create a twitter account or have a feedly RSS reader account. And yes! Retweet. Like. Subscribe. Share. Help others discover this digital treasure trove of bloggers who serve the Church via this medium.

These interviews will post each Thursday during the coming weeks. We’ve already got an excellent lineup of bloggers who are participating in the series. Below is the past schedule.

Discovering Christian Bloggers Interview Schedule:

May 9 – Aaron Armstrong
May 16 – Trevin Wax
May 23 – Stephen Altrogge
May 30 – Mike Leake
June 6 – Gloria Furman

Today’s Featured Blogger:

Nate Claiborne PicNathaniel Claiborne blogs at nathanielclaiborne.com. He is married and teaches high school bible classes in central Florida. Follow @nateclaiborne on twitter.

Interview Questions:

1. What is your website/blog url? What would you describe as being the profile of your blog? What Christian niche do you best serve?

I blog regularly at http://nathanielclaiborne.com. I titled the site Marturo using the Greek word for “I witness.” I haven’t started playing with the possibility of iWitness, but I just might soon. I’ve been blogging in one form or another for about 10 years now, but it wasn’t until shortly before going to seminary that I started blogging about theology. Since then I’ve constantly had difficulty integrating personal blogging (think old school Xanga and MySpace) with more polished thinking, for instance, book reviews. My current way of dealing with it is to offer polished articles on Marturo and pictures, videos (usually funny), quotes, and other miscellanies at http://nateclaiborne.com.

My blog is predominantly book reviews, but historically it has included theological reflections, apologetic forays, and tips and insights for studying the Bible and developing Christian habits. My niche then is Christians who want to take their faith seriously and want to discover new resources to help them grow and develop their mind, as well as ways to think theologically (another old blog title) about current issues.

2. How did your blogging ministry begin?

Like I said, I started blogging the way I currently do when I started seminary. It originally was an outlet for my thinking and so posts from that era (2007-2008) are unfortunately long, convoluted and not very widely read. It was just a bit too niche. Around the time I got engaged and then married, I started taking post length and my audience a bit more seriously. It was also around this time that I learned you can get free books if you review them on your blog. I started with Crossway and then after reviewing some books I hadn’t gotten for free to build a base, began contacting other publishers until I got to where I am now. Once I graduated seminary, I began being more strategic with posts and trying to streamline my blog. Recently, I haven’t had as much time to write, but because I still read, I’ve kept up with my book reviews. I would like to do more, but I think it’s something I do well and something from which people benefit.

3. What is the most meaningful post you have written and why? 

Looking back, it was probably the post I wrote the day before I got married. It was part of a series I was doing on idolatry, called “Idolatry: Slowing Going the Way of the Buffalo” (http://nathanielclaiborne.com/idolatry-the-way-of-the-buffalo/) I was grappling both with what Scripture teaches about our relationship with God and my upcoming marriage. I sort of wondered out loud what it would be like if we took our marriages as lightly as we sometimes take our relationship with God. I think it still serves as a good reminder and something I will probably return to write more on in the future.

4. What is the most popular post that you have written? Why do you think it gained such extensive readership?

Believe it or not, book reviews are not generally all that popular. They actually don’t have as long of a shelf life as I would like, and they rarely strike a chord. One post that did, however, was in part of a series I did on worship music. It was provocatively titled, “How To Worship When You Think The Songs Suck.” (http://nathanielclaiborne.com/how-to-worship-when-you-think-the-songs-suck/) It was picked up by Lisa Robinson over at Parchment & Pen and generated some really good discussion. Worship music is something I struggle with regularly, but for perhaps a different reason than most people. I am a musician and I predominantly listen to progressive metal and other types of heavier rock music. For me, even the edgiest worship music is still kind of musically boring and not something I would listen to in my spare time. I judge music based on its interesting artistry and complexity, something worship music generally lacks. Add the fact that there are many well loved worship songs with vapid lyrics, I rarely find a worship song that I like in the same way I like the music I listen to regularly.

This post was my way of processing through that and coming to terms with the fact that what we are doing in church is different than what I am doing when I am listening to music I enjoy. Also, my taste in music is not normative, nor should it be (for different reasons than what you might be thinking!) and I am there not to be entertained but to worship, and I should be able to meaningfully do that even if I personally think “this song kind of sucks.” I should add that I’ve also realized that “suck” is usually used in a subjective sense meaning “I don’t like this” and may not have any sound basis for critique (and usually doesn’t when most people say it). If I use it (and I usually don’t use that word for it), I mean “this song or this worship band lacks artistic integrity.” Even those instances, I should be able to worship and should keep my critiques to myself unless asked or unless I can actually contribute to change.

5. What has been your inspiration to write? Why have you been inspired to write?

I think I’ve been more inspired by sharing content than by any one writer. But when I think about writers whose clarity and creativity make me want to be a better writer, C.S. Lewis and John Piper spring to mind. They were the first and early influences. Additionally, I’ve found John Frame and N.T. Wright to both be inspirational for the way they write about theological and biblical studies. Outside of the Bible Belt, I enjoy and draw from clever observers of culture like Chuck Klosterman and Malcolm Gladwell and the travelogues of Bill Bryson.

In terms of why I want to write, I think it goes back to wanting to communicate effectively in order to facilitate growth. I need to spend more time perfecting the craft, but there just hasn’t been room for that on my plate recently. Hopefully now that its summer I can start writing more again and implementing techniques from books like On Writing Well and Writing Tools: 50 Essential Strategies for Every Writer, both of which are books with principles I’ve carelessly violated all throughout answering these interview questions (like just now for instance). I realize writing gets better by doing, not by reading about how to do it better. And for that reason, I’ll be doing more than just book reviews in the coming months after a brief hiatus.

View-Worthy: 6.12.13

There are a lot of excellent Christian bloggers out there and many of them post daily. In an effort to assist readers find valuable reading, I ReTweet my three favorite reads that I’ve read each day.

View-Worthy is the daily post at jtcochran.com which shares these view-worthy reads from the previous day. All I’ve done is embedded my ReTweets from the previous day. Simply click through the link to enjoy these excellent reads. I encourage you to add these bloggers or blogs to your blog roll, rss feed, or follow them on twitter.

 

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